agreed with huimin abt BGR in her blog.
BUT, i would not judge who is a jerk in a relationship, regardless girls or boys. u r the one who is willing to put in effort and time into this relationship. to me, u have the responsibility or duty to maintain this or do it off.
perhaps some factors had actually made the relationship sour, some characters of urself or the other party had made the relationship even worse. but after everything, it still boils down to trust and understanding. b4 getting into this relationship, all the sweetness came and u shld b rational enuff to noe if u r able to trust and understand the other partner.
dunnoe y, all of a sudden i feel tat these 2 factors r very very impt in a relationship.
when outsiders speak abt ur partner, shld u believe them or believe in ur partner?
when he/she did wrong, shld u trust him/her again?
it hard to understand human's feelings and thots at times.
perhaps u can forgive wad he/she had did in the past, however, u cant trust him again. all in all, forgiveness needs a moment, trust needs time to rebuild again. --> read this in purpose driven life.
and i feel tat it really really do applies to our life.
some couples can b together upon knowing each other for less than a week.
some couples can break up even though they have 2 or 3 yrs of relationship.
well... ive got ZERO experience for BGR. perhaps im wrong. perhaps u do not angree to wad ive said. and PERHAPS, i do not know the full whole stories of wad ive just mentioned. (:
